The Weight of the Smaller Self
Somewhere along the way, most of us learn to keep a second, smaller version of ourselves on hand — one that’s easier to bring into a room. It says the agreeable thing, takes up a little less space, wants a little less, needs a little less. We don’t usually think of it as a separate self at all. We just think of it as being easy to get along with, or being professional, or being…
