5 Powerful Things I Learned About Writing a Person While Processing Someone Else’s Paperwork
I never see the people I talk to. Four years at DFR and every relationship I’ve had with a client has come through a phone line — no face, no hands, no room they’re sitting in. Just a voice, and whatever a voice decides to give me.
I had a call recently with a woman raising her four grandchildren. She’d already sent in the legal guardianship paperwork — the document that said, officially, permanently, these are mine to care for. But guardianship wasn’t enough to authorize SNAP and TANF. I needed birth certificates proving biological relationship, and she only had them for two of the four kids. And then, without my asking, her voice cracked, and she told me why: her son — their father — had died by suicide. That’s how she’d ended up with four grandchildren and a filing problem she was now expected to solve while grieving him.
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